👉 To the mom who wants her kids to act like they love each other...
Stop Being The Referee & Start Watching Your Kids Get Along
👋 Wave Goodbye to Fighting, Insults, Grudges, and One-Upmanship and Restore The Peace
👉 To the mom who wants her kids to act like they love each other...
Stop Being The Referee & Start Watching Your Kids Get Along
👋 Wave Goodbye to Fighting, Insults, Grudges, and One-Upmanship and Restore The Peace
📣 Bickering, name-calling, and physical violence weren’t what you had in mind for your kids.
You don't expect your kids to hug 24/7, but it’d be nice if they'd:
Play for longer periods without screaming and fighting
Talk through differences instead of name-calling, insults and teasing
Forgive vs holding grudges and having the same fight over and over
Be able to see each other's side and have a little empathy
Refereeing and consequences hasn't helped your kids get along better.
In fact, that just makes them mad at YOU and
still not get along.
📣 Bickering, name-calling, and physical violence weren’t what you had in mind for your kids.
You don't expect them to hug 24/7, but it’d be nice if they'd:
Play for longer periods without screaming and fighting
Talk through differences instead of name-calling, insults and teasing
Forgive vs holding grudges and having the same fight over and over
Be able to see each other's side and
have a little empathy
Refereeing and consequences hasn't helped your kids get along better.
In fact, that just makes them mad at YOU and still not get along.
Life's stressful enough without kids who seem to pick fights for no reason - and then hold grudges about them for months! 🎪
It's time to teach kids to handle their differences, NO MATTER THEIR AGE.
The fact is -> kids don’t automatically know how to:
Listen to each other’s “no” (in fact, they either don’t take no for an answer or, conversely, think they can't say no!)
Handle frustration & anger without lashing out (they gotta offload those bad feelings!)
Take ownership of their actions (blame, blame, blame is the name of the game!)
Understand age-appropriate differences and privileges (everything must be equal to be fair!)
Get what they want without in a win-win way (it’s either I win or he/she always gets their way!)
It's time to teach kids to handle their differences...
NO MATTER THEIR AGE.
FACT→
kids don’t automatically know how to:
Respect each other’s “no” (in fact, they don’t take no for an answer!)
Handle frustration & anger without lashing out (they gotta offload those bad feelings!)
Take ownership of their actions (blame, blame, blame is the name of the game!)
Understand age-appropriate differences and privileges (everything must be equal to be fair!)
Get what they want without in a win-win way (it’s either I win or he/she always gets their way!)
💗 You've been singing Kumbaya -> but it hasn't sunk in yet.
💗 You've been singing Kumbaya -> but it hasn't sunk in yet.
You know your kids love each other... you just want them to act like it.
And you’re sick of all the tattling and refereeing that leaves kids upset with you and each other.
life is tough, and you want them to have each other.
You know your kids love each other... you just want them to act like it.
And you’re sick of all the tattling and refereeing that leaves kids upset with you and each other.
life is tough. you want them to have each other.
Research shows children who grow up with a lot of conflict have…
Negative views of their family relationships, low self-esteem, & other mental health issues that can last into adulthood.
Research shows children who grow up with a lot of conflict have…
Negative views of their family relationships, low self-esteem, & other mental health issues that can last into adulthood.
Help your kids deal with conflict
without RESORTING TO DRAMA
So that you can create a 🏡 environment where kids handle upsets well and:
Your home feels peaceful
The kids enjoy being around each other more
There's hope for loyal abiding relationships between your kids
Nobody in your home is feeling hurt, down, or taken advantage of
The family home feels like a safe and loving place for everyone
Help your kids deal
with conflict
without RESORTING TO DRAMA
Create a 🏡 environment where kids can handle upsets so:
Your home feels peaceful
The kids enjoy being around each other more
There's hope for loyal abiding relationships between your kids
Nobody in your home is feeling hurt, down, or taken advantage of
The family home feels like a safe and loving place for everyone
Put away your whistle and join me for...
Help Your kids Be Allies, Not Adversaries
After this program you’ll walk away with:
Exact strategy for handling conflict (because kids are not yet emotionally mature or fully able to remain calm during conflict) that you’ll gradually be able to hand over to them - no more tattling or refereeing needed
The tools to unravel and dissolve grudges - even long-held ones (hint: they’re just re-playing that first grievance!)
Insight into favoritism… what it is, isn’t, whether it exists in the home or not, and what to do about it (and how to process the fact that some kids are just… easier than others)
Strategies to be sure that you (or anyone else in the family) aren’t pigeon-holing one child into the aggressor and the others as victims… which will increase rivalry and fighting
Put away your whistle and join me for...
Help Your kids Be Allies, Not Adversaries
After SIH you’ll walk away with:
Exact strategy for handling conflict (because kids are not yet emotionally mature or fully able to remain calm during conflict) that you’ll gradually be able to hand over to them - no more tattling or refereeing needed
The tools to unravel and dissolve grudges - even long-held ones (hint: they’re just re-playing that first grievance!)
Insight into favoritism… what it is, isn’t, whether it exists in the home or not, and what to do about it (and how to process the fact that some kids are just… easier than others)
Strategies to be sure that you (or anyone else in the family) aren’t pigeon-holing one child into the aggressor and the others as victims… which will increase rivalry and fighting
Let's teach them to resolve conflict, not stir it up!
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🎧 MODULE 1
How Kids REALLY Work
Ready to have kids who can play together or resolve tiffs without devolving into name-calling or hitting?
Understand Sibling Rivalry... learn how children think about approval and love and how to rivalry-proof your kids, once and for all.
Decode Escalating Behavior: I’ll show you why your kids end up screaming, hitting, being too “prideful” to admit they’re wrong, or holding grudges - so you can turn the ship around.
Declare Cease Fire. You’ll understand how to break behavior patterns that keep your kids stuck in a never-ending sibling war.
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🎧 MODULE 2
TRUE CONFLICT RESOLUTION
Teach true conflict resolution -> not compromise where both parties feel they got the shaft <- so your kids can learn to handle tiffs and spats on their own.
Understand How Grudges Set In ... you’ll help your children unwind even long-held grudges.
Unearth The Real Story: I’ll show you how to encourage honest sharing - without name-calling, interrupting, or hitting - so kids can feel equally seen and heard (which de-escalates conflict, btw)
Rules Of Engagement: I’ll teach you to de-escalate the fight and how to handle fights, spats, and bickering in the moment.
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🎧 Module 3
SPECIFIC Sibling Issues
As if that wasn’t enough - breaking the pattern of constant fights - no course on sibling relationships would be worth its salt without talking about the elephants in the room.
Favoritism... yup, we’re going there. Learn what it actually is, how to deal with kids perceiving it (when you don’t), and how to dismantle it (if it does exist!)
Us Against Them: Breaking the pattern of one child against all others. If you have a difficult child… you know the dynamic.
Birth Order Concerns. Reverse the ‘oldest overpowering the younger kids’ dynamic or the ‘youngest gets away with everything’ resentment - as well behavior patterns repeating due to age (like the oldest feeling they got their life taken away from them when you had another child!)
Let's teach them to resolve conflict, not stir it up!
*
🎧 MODULE 1
How Kids REALLY Work
Ready to have kids who can play together or resolve tiffs without devolving into name-calling or hitting?
Understand Sibling Rivalry... learn how children think about approval and love and how to rivalry-proof your kids, once and for all.
Decode Escalating Behavior: I’ll show you why your kids end up screaming, hitting, being too “prideful” to admit they’re wrong, or holding grudges - so you can turn the ship around.
Declare Cease Fire. You’ll understand how to break behavior patterns that keep your kids stuck in a never-ending sibling war.
*
🎧 MODULE 2
TRUE CONFLICT RESOLUTION
Teach true conflict resolution -> not compromise where both parties feel they got the shaft <- so your kids can learn to handle tiffs and spats on their own.
Understand How Grudges Set In ... you’ll help your children unwind even long-held grudges.
Unearth The Real Story: I’ll show you how to encourage honest sharing - without name-calling, interrupting, or hitting - so kids can feel equally seen and heard (which de-escalates conflict, btw)
Rules Of Engagement: I’ll teach you to de-escalate the fight and how to handle fights, spats, and bickering in the moment.
*
🎧 Module 3
SPECIFIC Sibling Issues
As if that wasn’t enough - breaking the pattern of constant fights - no course on sibling relationships would be worth its salt without talking about the elephants in the room.
Favoritism... yup, we’re going there. Learn what it actually is, how to deal with kids perceiving it (when you don’t), and how to dismantle it (if it does exist!)
Us Against Them: Breaking the pattern of one child against all others. If you have a difficult child… you know the dynamic.
Birth Order Concerns. Reverse the ‘oldest overpowering the younger kids’ dynamic or the ‘youngest gets away with everything’ resentment - as well behavior patterns repeating due to age (like the oldest feeling they got their life taken away from them when you had another child!)
you gotta keep
'em separated.
Of course, you don’t have to take action...
BUT WHAT ARE THE ALTERNATIVES?
You could just buy 2, 3, 4 of everything so your kids never have to fight over anything….
But that’ll only kick the can (of learning how to share, deal with frustration, etc.) down the road to later… when stakes are higher and the fighting is scarier because the kids are stronger.
You could keep trying not to yell, scream, or harshly punish the 467th fight that day…
But that won’t stop the ingrained behavior patterns, grudges, and power plays happening since the kids literally do not know how to handle this stuff on their own.
You could just keep referring and doling out punishments and consequences for fighting…
But that won’t teach your children how to handle conflict. It only makes them MORE mad. And over time - at you! Because you don’t get why they’re really mad!
💫 It’s time to invest in your children’s relationships with each other.
Of course, you don’t have to take action...
BUT WHAT'S THE ALTERNATIVE?
You could just buy 2, 3, 4 of everything so your kids never have to fight over anything….
But that’ll only kick the can (of learning how to share, deal with frustration, etc.) down the road to later… when stakes are higher and the fighting is scarier because the kids are stronger.
You could keep trying not to yell, scream, or harshly punish the 467th fight that day…
But that won’t stop the ingrained behavior patterns, grudges, and power plays happening since the kids literally do not know how to handle this stuff on their own.
You could just keep refereeing and doling out punishments and consequences for fighting…
But that won’t teach your children how to handle conflict. It only makes them MORE mad. And over time - at you! Because you don’t get why they’re really mad!
💫 It’s time to invest in your children’s relationships with each other.
After taking the action to join, you'll get:
Step-by-step conflict resolution framework for siblings (Value $197)
Personalized coaching for your family’s issues (Value $297 but priceless btw)
Community of like-minded mamas (Value $97)
Group coaching calls to hash out sibling issues
TODAY'S PRICE = $97
→ or 2 payments of $50
After taking the action to join, you'll get:
Step-by-step conflict resolution framework for siblings (Value $197)
Personalized coaching for your family’s issues (Value $297 but priceless btw)
Community of like-minded mamas (Value $97)
Group coaching calls to hash out sibling issues
TODAY'S PRICE = $97
→ or 2 payments of $50
⏳ Doors close on Sept. 30th and we start fresh Oct. 1st
⏳ Doors close on Sept. 30th and we start fresh Oct. 1st
I'll Take The Risk.
Oh, and if you aren’t happy within 14 days of purchase (aka the content inside doesn’t make you go 🤯) then send us an email and we’ll make it right.
I'll Take The Risk.
Oh, and if you aren’t happy within 14 days of purchase (aka the content inside doesn’t make you go 🤯) then send us an email and we’ll make it right.
I'm Rachel (mom of 5)
As a family life coach, I've helped over 35,000 mothers create family practices that support peaceful homes, predictable routines, and healthy boundaries through my courses and resources.
As a Language of Listening® coach I've personally helped hundreds of mothers address patterns, cycles, and problem areas in their homes that steal their peace and rob their joy.
It’s time to level up your family relationships. you in?
I'm Rachel (mom of 5)
As a family life coach, I've helped over 35,000 mothers create family practices that support peaceful homes, predictable routines, and healthy boundaries through my courses and resources.
As a Language of Listening® coach I've personally helped hundreds of mothers address patterns, cycles, and problem areas in their homes that steal their peace and rob their joy.
It’s time to level up your family relationships.
you in?
How to know if you’re a perfect
match for Siblings In Harmony...
🌀PATTERNS & CYCLES
You know there are patterns and cycles of sibling rivalry and strife that haven’t gone away on their own and probably won’t… and are the type of mom who does something about it.
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👩👧👧MORE THAN 1 CHILD
You have more than one child (step, foster, half, cousins who live in!) in the home that desperately needs conflict resolution skills.
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⚖️RIVALRY IS PRESENT
You have kids in competition with one another - for love, attention, achievement, etc. and you feel like you’re stuck in the middle.
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🩹DAMAGE IS BEING DONE
You’re worried one of your children is getting hurt
or traumatized by another sibling with all the insulting and lashing out.
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🐑YOU FEAR A 'BLACK SHEEP'
You feel dread that one of your children is a black sheep in the making - despite your best effort - and the patterns are just settling in more.
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How to know if you’re a perfect match for Siblings In Harmony...
🌀PATTERNS & CYCLES
You know there are patterns and cycles of sibling rivalry and strife that haven’t gone away on their own and probably won’t… and are the type of mom who does something about it.
*
👩👧👧MORE THAN 1 CHILD
You have more than one child (step, foster, half, cousins who live in!) in the home that desperately needs conflict resolution skills.
*
⚖️RIVALRY IS PRESENT
You have kids in competition with one another - for love, attention, achievement, etc. and you feel like you’re stuck in the middle.
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🩹DAMAGE IS BEING DONE
You’re worried one of your children is getting hurt or traumatized with all the insulting and lashing out.
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🐑YOU FEAR A 'BLACK SHEEP'
You dread that one of your children is a black sheep in the making - despite your best effort - and the patterns are just settling in more.
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❔ A's to your Q's ❔
How Long will i have access to this?
For the life of the course. You'll get access to the curriculum and there isn't a time limit on it. The community and coaching will last for 6 weeks.
I don’t think I have time for this??
You also don’t have time for constant fighting, bickering, and a stressful home. Later, when there is time -> because the kids are gone -> you’ll wish you’d made time.
Do you offer refunds?
Yes, my Sibling Harmony pledge is good for 14 days.
What if one (or more) of my kids has ADHD/ADD?
If I can speak plainly, odds are most fights in your home revolve around this child. Children who are highly sensitive, explosive, impulsive, demanding, and aggressive need healthy conflict resolution skills more than others. If in doubt, ask your psychiatrist, counselor, or therapist.
Do I have to be at the live calls?
Nope. You can ask questions in our group and community and receive personalized coaching. All calls will be recorded as well for my non-USA mamas.
What ages is this for?
The principles and strategies I'm teaching will work for children of any age from 1 on to 18! You'll tweak slightly with age, but not much.
❔A's to your Q's❔
How Long will i have access to this?
For the life of the course. You'll get access to the curriculum and there isn't a time limit on it. The community and coaching will last for 6 weeks.
I don’t think I have time for this??
You also don’t have time for constant fighting, bickering, and a stressful home. Later, when there is time -> because the kids are gone -> you’ll wish you’d made time now. You'll have access to the material for the lifetime of the course, but the coaching and community will only last 6 weeks. If you need those, now is the time!
Do you offer refunds?
Yes, my Sibling Harmony pledge is good for 14 days.
What if one (or more) of my kids has ADHD?
If I can speak plainly, odds are most fights in your home revolve around this child. Children who are highly sensitive, explosive, impulsive, demanding, and aggressive need healthy conflict resolution skills in spades. If in doubt, ask your psychiatrist, counselor, or therapist.
Do I have to be at the live calls?
Nope. You can ask questions in our group and community and receive personalized coaching. All calls will be recorded as well for my non-USA mamas.
What ages is this for?
The principles and strategies I'm teaching will work for children of any age from 1 on to 18! You'll tweak slightly with age, but not much.
You want your kids to get along. Now AND later in life - when they’ll need each other.
If it feels like Groundhog Day every day and you’re just plain ole tired and fed up with the seemingly never-ending cycle of fighting, bickering, and rivalry…
You’re not alone. And you don’t have to solve this problem alone.
It’s time to stop feeling triggered and ashamed every time your kids fight… -> and teach your kids to turn frustrations into solutions.
Get rid of that “nothing is working” feeling… because you have a strategy that gets to the root of the issues so the issues melt away.
Teach your kids coping skills so they don’t start to see themselves as bad kids… (or their siblings!)
You want your kids to get along. Now AND later in life - when they’ll need each other.
If it feels like Groundhog Day every day and you’re just plain ole tired and fed up with the seemingly never-ending cycle of fighting, bickering, and rivalry…
You’re not alone. And you don’t have to solve this problem alone.
It’s time to stop feeling triggered and ashamed every time your kids fight… -> and teach your kids to turn frustrations into solutions.
Get rid of that “nothing is working” feeling… because you have a strategy that gets to the root of the issues so the issues melt away.
Teach your kids coping skills so they don’t start to see themselves as bad kids… (or their siblings!)
what other mamas have to say...
ABOUT THE SIBLINGS IN HARMONY METHOD
ELIZABETH, MOM OF 2
Her little one stopped biting once she started my process.
BROOKE, MOM OF 2
She realized, if her kids thought she'd resolve their issues, they never tried to on their own.
CHIA, MOM OF 3
How her kids went from war... to solving agreements on their own.
what other mamas say...
ABOUT THE SIBLINGS IN HARMONY METHOD
ELIZABETH, MOM OF 3
Her little one stopped biting once she started my process.
BROOKE, mom of 2
She realized, if her kids thought she'd resolve their issues, they never tried to settle them on their own.
CHIA, MOM OF 3
How her kids went from war... to solving agreements on their own.
sandy blackard, FOUNDER OF LANGUAGE OF LISTENING™
Story of resolving a neighborhood feud between a group of kids, using the exact tools you'll learn in Siblings In Harmony.
dr. betsy blackard
Perspective of growing up in a household that handled conflict like this...
RACHEL (ME), mom of 5
The #1 biggest reason my kids relationships have grown more peaceful...
It is possible to...
teach kids to figure out their own solutions without running to mom, tattling, or throwing fists.
Birth order isn't a life sentence, favoritism is fixable, and there is a peaceful path forward to a healthy family that (🤣mostly) gets along.
teach kids to figure out their own solutions without running to mom, tattling, or throwing fists.
Birth order isn't a life sentence, favoritism is fixable, and there is a peaceful path forward to a healthy family that (🤣mostly) gets along.
After taking the action to join, you'll get:
Step-by-step conflict resolution framework for siblings (Value $197)
Personalized coaching for your family’s issues (Value $297 but priceless btw)
Community of like-minded mamas (Value $97)
Group coaching calls to hash out sibling issues (Value $147)
TOTAL VALUE = $738
TODAY'S PRICE = $97
→ or 2 payments of $50
After taking the action to join, you'll get:
Step-by-step conflict resolution framework for siblings (Value $197)
Personalized coaching for your family’s issues (Value $297 but priceless btw)
Community of like-minded mamas (Value $97)
Group coaching calls to hash out sibling issues (Value $147)
TOTAL VALUE = $738
TODAY'S PRICE = $97
→ or 2 payments of $50
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